> Hi guys,
>
> I am new to this newsgroup and just subscribed a couple minutes ago. I
> would like to get some genuine advice for my problems. I met a girl
> before this summer started. We both stayed on the same floor in a same
> hall (obiviously, we are all students). We didn't talk much for the
> whole year not because she has a bitch shield but because I was just
> too shy to talk to her (YEah right, I am one of those typical AFCs who
> has low selfesteem plus has approcah anxiety of girls). As far as I
> know, she is kind of happy-go-lucky and loose. Anyway, I didn't do
> much for the whole year to get know to her. However, when the academic
> year got close to finish, finally we started to talk to each other
> more than before but still not more than 5 minutes. I still remmeber
> the first time we chitchatted to each other (not more than ten
> minutes). It happened in our floor common room. I didn't break the ice
> to talked her in the first place, but she did because we were only two
> people in a common room watching telly. Could be she got bored at that
> time and needed some ACF to kill her time.
>
> Anyway, let me cut all the crap and get to my points. Finally, I had a
> little breakthrough on three days before my hall closed for summer.
> There was an end-of-term party in the basement of my hall. I happened
> to see her there and I was playing pool with my mate. That night I
> couldn't help myself and keep starring at her (most of the time at her
> tits) everytime when she walked past the pool table. It could be I was
> too obvious and got her attention of my existence ( still not so sure
> whether it is an IOI). She invited me to the bar and asked me to have
> a drink with her. At that time I thought I got lucky, I nodded my head
> quite quickly without another second thought and left my poor mate
> behind the pool table. When we hit the bar table, I wasn't the only
> one with her and she got some other companies. I got so frustrated by
> her companies because they were bein so frigging gay for the whole
> night and then I decided to leave her. Before I left, she suggested
> me to go to the club with her and all her friends after the party at
> the hall. I did hesitate and was so nervious at that time. Then, I
> tried to calm yourself donw and I gave a signal to my mate who leaned
> on the pool table to ask him to go out with me. However, I stopped
> staight after I did it. I know my mate quite well. He is a geek and
> worse than me. He suffers some kind of a weird phobia. he doesn't like
> anywhere too loud or to small. He would started strangling people if
> it happned (Thanks god, I am still alive since I have been hanging
> around with him.). Then I had a deep thought and decided not going
> with her and her mates. The reasons were that apart from her, I barely
> knew anyone plus I didn't want to talk to those wankers (her friends)
> who have been haunting her for the whole night.
>
> After I said bye to her at that night and left the party and the bar,
> I felt so regretted what I did. Then two days later, I wrote her a
> note and asked her out. I didn't got her reply till the day when she
> moved out the hall (in total, I think I waited one day til I got her
> official reply). I bumped into her on the corridor. She was packing
> her stuff with her parents. She told me she couldn't make it becuase
> she was busy with her family visit and packing. I showed my courtesy
> and said it was not a problem and ask her to stay in tounch with me.
> Then after she left the hall for summer. I only send her an email to
> say hi and she replied in couple days later. Since then, I haven't
> sent her anythingl. The reason is I got nothing to say and was scared
> of ruining my chance.
>
> Well, after this long email, I just want you guys to do some analysis.
> Do I still have a chance with her? If so, I really want to send her a
> "seductive" email. Would you guys mind giving me some ass-kicking
> openers or anythings so that I can keep my deal alive and get her on
> my bed?
>
> Wilson.