Hi guys,

I am new to this newsgroup and just subscribed a couple minutes ago. I
would like to get some genuine advice for my problems. I met a girl
before this summer started. We both stayed on the same floor in a same
hall (obiviously, we are all students). We didn't talk much for the
whole year not because she has a bitch shield but because I was just
too shy to talk to her (YEah right, I am one of those typical AFCs who
has low selfesteem plus has approcah anxiety of girls). As far as I
know, she is kind of happy-go-lucky and loose. Anyway, I didn't do
much for the whole year to get know to her. However, when the academic
year got close to finish, finally we started to talk to each other
more than before but still not more than 5 minutes. I still remmeber
the first time we chitchatted to each other (not more than ten
minutes). It happened in our floor common room. I didn't break the ice
to talked her in the first place, but she did because we were only two
people in a common room watching telly. Could be she got bored at that
time and needed some ACF to kill her time.

Anyway, let me cut all the crap and get to my points. Finally, I had a
little breakthrough on three days before my hall closed for summer.
There was an end-of-term party in the basement of my hall. I happened
to see her there and I was playing pool with my mate. That night I
couldn't help myself and keep starring at her (most of the time at her
tits) everytime when she walked past the pool table. It could be I was
too obvious and got her attention of my existence ( still not so sure
whether it is an IOI). She invited me to the bar and asked me to have
a drink with her. At that time I thought I got lucky, I nodded my head
quite quickly without another second thought and left my poor mate
behind the pool table. When we hit the bar table, I wasn't the only
one with her and she got some other companies. I got so frustrated by
her companies because they were bein so frigging gay for the whole
night and then I decided to leave her. Before I left, she suggested
me to go to the club with her and all her friends after the party at
the hall. I did hesitate and was so nervious at that time. Then, I
tried to calm yourself donw and I gave a signal to my mate who leaned
on the pool table to ask him to go out with me. However, I stopped
staight after I did it. I know my mate quite well. He is a geek and
worse than me. He suffers some kind of a weird phobia. he doesn't like
anywhere too loud or to small. He would started strangling people if
it happned (Thanks god, I am still alive since I have been hanging
around with him.). Then I had a deep thought and decided not going
with her and her mates. The reasons were that apart from her, I barely
knew anyone plus I didn't want to talk to those wankers (her friends)
who have been haunting her for the whole night.

After I said bye to her at that night and left the party and the bar,
I felt so regretted what I did. Then two days later, I wrote her a
note and asked her out. I didn't got her reply till the day when she
moved out the hall (in total, I think I waited one day til I got her
official reply). I bumped into her on the corridor. She was packing
her stuff with her parents. She told me she couldn't make it becuase
she was busy with her family visit and packing. I showed my courtesy
and said it was not a problem and ask her to stay in tounch with me.
Then after she left the hall for summer. I only send her an email to
say hi and she replied in couple days later. Since then, I haven't
sent her anythingl. The reason is I got nothing to say and was scared
of ruining my chance.

Well, after this long email, I just want you guys to do some analysis.
Do I still have a chance with her? If so, I really want to send her a
"seductive" email. Would you guys mind giving me some ass-kicking
openers or anythings so that I can keep my deal alive and get her on
my bed?

Wilson.