Plese help me to see what I've done wrong and how to make it better next
time. If you don't have the time for the whole story just read the last
paragraph. Here is a situation from last saturday:

In the club.

A guy pointed to one girl and he said that her name was xy, and told me
he met her few saturdays ago. Girl is a bomb, a very good 17 year old 9, im
19 by the way. Later I came to her when she was alone, I said to her: "Hey I
don't know you, actually I do. You're xy. (she smiled) My friend told me
your name." So we talked about stuff, she smiled a couple of times. All the
time I was making kino on her arms, legs and face sometimes. (Maybe that's
too intrusive, because I was doing it all the time)
I said to her that she was good, looking (and does she sees it as a
problem, because sometimes guys only talk to her because of her looks, blah
blah). I asked her why isn't she in new top model reality show (that was a
joke), she said that she thinks she's too short and fat. She has a bit of
fat on her tummy, but REALLY it's no problem. :) She even stood up for me
and turned around her to show me her body, after I asked her that. You know,
to see if she's really fat or is she just lying to herself. She told me that
the fat on her tummy bothers her. We also talked about other stuff, but in
one point of the convo I didn't know what to say and left and I've said I
will return later. The thruth is that we were sitting in chairs opposite of
each other and I didn't know how to go for the kiss...
Later I returned, she was sorrounded with bunch of guys (her "friends"),
I came up to her and asked her about her tatoo. She didn't reply much. Again
I didn't know what to say and I left.
The third time I came to her I was going out of the club and said to her
that we had interesting convo, and I asked her could I get her number so we
can continue the convo, she didn't gave it to me, she we'll see each other
some other time..
Everything was going soo good and I managed to ruin it. My excuse for
not going for the kiss is that she was too far away and I was scared to do
it because if I leaned to her and tried it, she would maybe reject it and
the everybody would see it, and I would be ashamed... blah blah blah. Well I
guess my problem isn't fear of approaching but fear of kissing, how can I
fix that?