Now Im Confused wrote in
news:87d55l70ax.fsf@localhost.localdomain:
> Formhandle fastseduction.com> writes:
>
>> speeding wrote:
>>
>>> Formhandle
fastseduction.com> wrote in
>>> news:c7qdnYYRaKuZ5zjYnZ2dnUVZ_uuqnZ2d@giganews.com:
>>>> The most common aspect of a FAQ is "Frequently". How is this a
>>>> FAQ if none of the questions you list come up frequently? Some of
>>>> them have barely, if ever, come up at all except from you.
>>> The first seven questions are all from the original FAQ.
>>
>> Which was in sore need of updating. Which is what happened.
>>
>> There's also no "official" here. With the help of a few others, I
>> put together a more constructive FAQ. You're just re-posting what
>> became out-dated and added a couple crap questions.
>>
>>> Not quite, but almost word for word. So yeah, they aren't asked
>>> that often any more. But since they were in the original, I put
>>> them in the update of the original. The last three questions are
>>> easily the most commonly asked questions on ASF. The question about
>>> Ray is still an ongoing subject in several threads.
>>
>> Because people get drawn into that crap. Dredging up crap only
>> causes the crap to continue.
>>
>> Most people can figure out things pretty quick on their own,
>> especially in regards to that topic. A FAQ is meant to save newbies
>> some time with the most frequently asked questions. A FAQ is not
>> meant to be a political mouthpiece.
>>
>>>> Also, by repeating a FAQ instead of a pointer to one, you're just
>>>> flooding the group with copies of something that you're going to
>>>> change constantly. Some up with something solid or wait until you
>>>> do before sharing. I mean, it can't be that hard, it's just a
>>>> single document.
>>> How does someone post a pointer to a Usenet post? You are talking
>>> about a pointer to a commerical web portal. IE: Spam.
>>
>> So post it somewhere else. You can create a blog for free. As can
>> be witnessed by recent events, even an idiot can do it.
>>
>>> It's not possible to "point" to a Usenet post because Usenet posts
>>> do not HAVE pointers. They have headers. And I've never heard of a
>>> news reader yet that can pull a header in a manner like a URL does
>>> for a website. At best, you could point to a Google archive or some
>>> other... WEBSITE. But if you can explain to me how I can search a
>>> news group directly... please let me know. Grepping on a server is
>>> about all I can imagine for trying that.
>>
>> You know, your argument may have been plausible prior to 1993. But
>> you are basically saying you are refusing to use a certain technology
>> (the web) which supports access consistency just so you can continue
>> to be limited by USENEt protocol for the purpose of purity.
>>
>> If I thought the way you did, FS& mASF would not exist and the same
>> 200-300 vocal people would be arguing on ASF (sprinkled with a few
>> actual PUAs), there would be Ross & a few other pickup/seduction
>> resources out there, Neil's book would have never been written,
>> Mystery's idea for a infield workshop biz would have taken forever to
>> launch, DYD would have not had an initial burst of market
>> penetration, and basically the entire landscape of pickup resources
>> and options and businesses out there would be 10%% of what they are
>> now.
>>
>> This whole niche would have floundered and disappeared almost into
>> oblivion. It was great way back, of course even a little is very
>> useful, but that's where it was heading. Obscurity and eventually
>> oblivion.
>>
>>> As for changing the FAQ, I doubt it'll change much more.
>>
>> Then what's the point? This was already done. You're not even
>> re-inventing the wheel. Your rolling out a rough chiseled round
>> stone for all of us to look.
>>
>>> This is only the third week it's been posted. Give other ASF
>>> readers a chance to read the thing. I understand you'd much rather
>>> direct them to a commerical web portal. I'd rather they stay on
>>> Usenet.
>>
>> I don't care where people go. I'm just providing an option for them
>> if they don't want to be here. As far as the FAQ on my site, I don't
>> think anyone gives a fuck except you or the dude who's the basis of
>> one of your FAQ questions. It's not like I'm pitching a product when
>> sharing the link or charging access or doing anything other than
>> pointing it to somewhere that has a consistency of availability for
>> the long term.
>>
>> There's even a PLAIN TEXT version of the same exact same FAQ. If you
>> have no problems with the FAQ, and only that it's visible on a web
>> page that generates revenue indirectly, then point to the plain text
>> version. It's not as nicely formatted, but I went out of my way to
>> make it dynamic so that when the HTML version is updated, the plain
>> text version automatically updates itself. I did this because I
>> could predict you 6 years ago LOL.
>>
>>> Or did you forget one of the concerns raised about creating the web
>>> forum in the first place... the concern about people not finding
>>> out about the web forum... Gee... daily advertising?
>>
>> There's a separate weekly post for that. One post is for the FAQ,
>> another is for mASF. Daily? Since when do the automated posts show
>> up here daily? They're once per week. They also make use of
>> consistent formatting so if anyone wants to filter them out, they can
>> easily.
>>
>> I'm still wondering about you're rolling out the chiseled wheel.
>> What's the point? You really still didn't answer that. At least
>> make it constructive and useful. Or are you just doing it for
>> political agenda?
>>
>>
>>> ====
>>> Thurs, Aug 9 2001 6:38 am
>>>
>>> 2. We'll probably have a lot less newbies who find out about it.
>>> I would consider this to be a loss. (I stumbled across this NG
>>> purely by accident as I'm sure many other now-regulars have). I'd
>>> hope we could actively promote the new location maybe with a daily
>>> post back here in the original usenet group. (it could be
>>> scattered in amongst all the Ray posts). regards, Scorpo rAFC ====
>>>
>>>> Another thing is, how many people are contributing to your version
>>>> of the FAQ? If it's just you, it's not representative of the
>>>> group, it's
>>>> just your opinions.
>>> Well, since it's about a fourth from the original FAQ... that's not
>>> my opinion. It might be someone else's. Another fourth comes from
>>> commonly defined terms. I found them defined on a web site portal,
>>> among other places I frequent. The majority, though, was a
>>> contribution from Now Im Confused. The only part that is from me is
>>> the part about a web portal that is calling itself the alternative
>>> to ASF. Even though there's another website that's also called
>>>
www.altseductionfast.com.
>>>
>>>> You may want to rant about my using FS to share a FAQ but the fact
>>>> remains that I and others took the time to ensure it covered many
>>>> actual often-asked beginner questions, and answered them
>>>> thoroughly. Many contributors are also cited and I don't flood the
>>>> place with
>>>> duplicate copies, I only automate the publishing of a pointer to
>>>> it so if it changes nobody will get confused between multiple
>>>> varying copies on USENet.
>>> You aren't "sharing" it. You aren't posting an FAQ about ASF.
>>> You're posting spam about a web portal. It directs traffic to a web
>>> portal. Call it what it is. If it was an ASF FAQ then it would
>>> contain questions and answers. But it doesn't. It contains a
>>> link. And yes, you and a few others whined and bitched and
>>> yes... did a great deal to help, way back in 2001, about how to
>>> answer and avoid having to repeat answering newbie questions. Did
>>> you forget that was the reason for wanting to create mASF in the
>>> first place? Let me remind you what one person said... ========
>>> Fri, Aug 10 2001 12:40 am To chime in as the devil's
>>> advocate....creating a moderated newsgroup, while not a bad
>>> idea...has inherent problems associated with it. I believe I was
>>> one of the first posters to bitch someone out and tell them to
>>> start a fuckin moderated newsgroup and stop the fucking whining
>>> about newbie posts. A few downsides, some already pointed out are
>>> 1. moderator persoality/personal bias 2. time consuming 3. I read
>>> over and over there is a huge archive of info. available...if all
>>> the answers are already there....why is there a need for a new
>>> group, let alone a moderated one? 4. missed opportunities to
>>> further develop tolerance, patience, etc. with dealing with AFC's
>>> and 'cockblocks' (i.e. group efficiency blocks/info. blocks) 5.
>>> missed opportunites for RAFC's to CHALLENGE THEMSELVES to take
>>> LEADERSHIP and develop those skills 6. hiding from reality/dealing
>>> with change and adapting and overcoming obsticales.... just food
>>> for thought. psychobabble ========
>>> As for the bullshit about flooding multiple copies... are you
>>> forgetting that you have not one, but TWO automatically posted
>>> floods that point to the exact same resource?
>>>
>>>> You bugged the hell out of all of us with your probes recently, so
>>>> now I ask you basically the same thing. What's your point?
>>> The point is that until I took the initiative a few weeks ago, ASF
>>> hasn't had an FAQ that is *FOR* ASF. It's got two spam broadcasts
>>> that point to a web portal where someone can go off Usenet to read
>>> a forum's FAQ. But it doesn't have an FAQ that is ON ASF itself.
>>> So, I took Psychobabble's advice and I found the original FAQ that
>>> was posted to ASF when it first started. And I updated it a bit,
>>> with a lot of input from Now Im Confused. But, it's still an FAQ
>>> that is ON ASF and about ASF... not a spam link to a web portal
>>> that's not on Usenet and lest you forget... basically states... My
>>> FAQ is not an official FAQ for ASF any more than any other FAQ
>>> someone might compile. It's merely a collection of opinions.
>>> Suggestions and contributions are welcome, although the authors
>>> reserve the right of final decision as to what ends up in it. This
>>> FAQ is, however, official for the forums available through Fast
>>> Seduction. The policies laid out in this document are expected to
>>> be followed strictly when posting to the moderated ASF forums.
>>> Gee... that might look vaguely familiar to you....
>>> So, what's YOUR beef? After all... you aren't claiming to have an
>>> offical FAQ either. At least the FAQ I'm posting was the original
>>> FAQ from way back when. Your is not much more than a pointer to a
>>> web forum FAQ. If you got a beef with an actual ASF FAQ, bring
>>> it. What would you like to see in it? What would you like to see
>>> different? What questions do you think should be there?
>>> Or is your objection merely that it isn't directing traffic
>>> strongly enough, as was feared by another poster back in 2001?
>>>
>
> After thinking this over and reading Jay's post. And looking at it
> objectively and for substance. I have to say that speeding, you should
> forget about the FAQ, don't post it, Jay's FAQ is very good and it is
> free. Google has ads, but i am SURE you still use that. So just
> because he is trying to make a buck or two or whatever should not take
> away from the fact that the info is good.
But, as even Jay points out.. Jay's FAQ is not an ASF FAQ. It is an FAQ for
his web forum. There's no FAQ for ASF. As for Google... not really.
Yahoo. But not Google. However, that's like comparing applies to oranges...
or Usenets to Websites.
I'm not against FS of mASF. What I'm against is saying that the mASF FAQ is
a Usenet FAQ. It's not. Yes, Google has ads. And Google owns the website.
They can do whatever they want with it. But Usenet is public. Google can
post to Usenet, sure... but they can't censor it. They can censor Google.
(at risk of a lawsuit? maybe?)
I agree the info on FS and on mASF is good. As good as the info on MM, as
good as on
ASF.com, as good as on socialskillz, as good as on Bristol Lair,
as good as on.... well... you get the idea... That's not something I'd
disagree with in any manner.
But, the mASF FAQ is not an ASF FAQ. An ASF FAQ should mention more than
just one site or one product. What do you call an article in a magazine
that is posted by a company that talks about the wonderful goodness of a
product... just their product... without comparing it to any other
products. I call it an ad. And generally, in a magazine... at the top or
the bottom of something being posted by a company to promote their
product... there is a line that says "advertisement".
On Usenet, I think it's called spam.
> I still stand behind my dislike of his forum for many reasons, bad
> interface, stupid PUA ratings, not free as-in-freedom, people can take
> down/edit posts, etc. But then again i don't post and i rarely, rarely
> read there, but the FAQ and player's guide, PAIR, Slang, etc. I do
> however send people to his site for the /youarenew and /asf-faq.shtml,
> as they have good data.
I happen to like his forum. The PUA ratings... well... but I think the idea
of letting the readers pick how good a post is... and then banning posters
that get marks for being consistantly bad... brilliant. I don't post, but I
read. Not as much as from MM... I think MM is better. But I read it all the
same. I'd even think about putting /youarenew in the FAQ... but hell...
that's given to everyone by everyone. So why should I do it when there's
ten others that are faster at doing it? I do have the site listed, though.
But, this isn't about the data on the site. I don't think there's a
disagreement about the usefullness of it. There is, though, a disagreement
about asf-faq. Because the faq is not an faq for ASF. It's an FAQ for the
forum. It even says so quite specifically. There's no FAQ that's actually
for ASF. Nowhere in the "asf-faq" are any reference given to other
locations for information.
> We need as little drama to this group as possible, and to just have
> people get the questions they have answered. Down with the trolls, and
> KJs, just ask questions get good with women, and see the sun shine. If
> you are really good on a subject answer just that question, not
> everything that someone new could ask. In the end it doesn't matter
> that much anyways, because you only really learn in field.
But, part of the drama is that, you might not agree... but then again, you
might... Ray is actually correct in calling the mASF and "ASF" FAQ postings
spam. They are. Pure and simple. It would be no different than if Mystery
was to post a TMM FAQ... and call it the ASF FAQ.. and then direct all
questions to his site.
If Ray was to post an FAQ and call it the ASF FAQ.. and then point traffic
to his server... put up a few Q&As... and a few ads... and say that his FAQ
is the ASF FAQ... would you call it anything other than spam? Anything that
advertises a single product is an advertisement. Or, as it's called on
Usenet... spam.
And THAT is what this is about. Putting an FAQ on ASF that is about and for
ASF, not about and for a web site.