A rather nice lady with the nickname AtheneWins (calling herself
Tania) is offering some advice on seduction and relationships. Here
is her first You Tube entry on the subject:

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=8BVvInp57rQ&feature=iv

She makes an important point that's been said here quite often,
although she doesn't use these exact terms, is "don't have one-itis,"
the answer is, don't just focus on one chick because she looks like
the best one out there, also focus on others too.

I thought what she had to say - especially with her South American
accent - was cute (as she was too) was that if you focus too much on
only one woman, and you don't get her, all you're going to end up with
is "watching big hooters on your PC and doing the 'five finger knuckle
shuffle.'" (And she did a demonstration of it, I thought it was also
cute as it kind of embarrassed her a bit.) I also like the way she
points out that while there's nothing wrong with this, you'll find
having a girlfriend is much better. As the title says,"Watch Porn or
Have the Real Thing."