On Feb 11, 10:52 am, "ume$h" gmail.com> wrote:

Accourding to some evolutionists, the claim has been made that you
can't pick, you must be picked. You must learn particular clues that
women give and then jump on it when the opportunity comes that you
have probably been missing. Of course the view below is only one way
amounst many;

From, The Science Of Romance.

The proverb "Faint heart never won fair lady" suggests that courtship
is a heroic activity of men performing for fair ladies, who sit around
waiting to be won, like stuffed toys at a county fair. However, a cool
scientific appraisal of the antics of men and women in a singles' bar
shows that it is the men who behave more like stuffed toys.