There's an alternative social model that dont have these problems.
Surf the Mosou of Western China. They've been matriarchic for hundreds
of years. The Grandmothers own the real estate and the businesses, and
they all live polyamorously in communal houses. They doint have
marriage as we know it. Men who do not own women dont fight over them,
so they all get along well.

Men who get laid dont bother trying to acquire status symbols. So- all
of the exploitation necessary which this thread is trying to figure
out how to cope with, is unnecessary.

This lifestyle was seen in the Tocharians of the Silk Road Towns just
West of the Jade Gate, and can be traced back all the way to
Chalcolithic Europe 7000 years ago. You dont read about it in history
cause they never invaded anyone to make history.