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Re: The lessons that guide us to enlightenment are all around us for the taking...once we open our minds and our eyes.         

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Author: Immortalist
Date: Sep 20, 2007 20:10

On Sep 20, 12:39 pm, V aol.com> wrote:
> The lessons that guide us to enlightenment are all around us for the
> taking...once we open our minds and our eyes.
>
> Horses taught me many a lesson on the road to enlightenment.
>
> There are 3 type of horses:
>
> The first group is composed of lazy or low energy horse that would
> only move a little fast when the whip was used. Other than that they
> always had their head down grazing and the only time they were in any
> hurry was to get back to the stable.
>
> The second group were good balanced horses whether fast or slow.
>
> The third group were high spirited horses and did not like to behave
> or run slow - but excelled at fast riding.
>
> It is relatively the same with people. There are the high capacity
> people and the low capacity people and all sorts in between.
>
> Sometime we get mad and think humans or horses are machines and all
> are fungible commodities. Well, they are not. We each have different
> abilities and comfort capabilities and once we accept this we can
> release the expectation that people or horses should be perfect.
> Always remember expectations are pre-planned resentments.
>
> I liked horses and used to ride em, but I could not ever hope to take
> care of them properly as they are very high maintenance and I am low
> capacity person. So I gave up horses and now ride dirt bikes, which I
> can maintain somewhat.
>
> Yes, bikes are inanimate, cold things, but pretty low maintenance as
> compared to horses. I can drain a bike dry, put it in storage, gas it
> and fire it up a year or five years later. This is all my comfortable
> ability will allow.
>
> So, I fall back on my old saying...it doesn't matter what I like, all
> that matters is what my inner peace program comfortably allows.
>
> We can see this comfort quotient with families. Some mothers can raise
> 12 kids without breathing hard. Another mom can't raise 1 kid and even
> ends up killing the 1 kid. So, there are all abilities of moms just as
> with horses and dirt bikes.
>
> It doesn't mean one mom is a better person than the other, it just
> means the two moms have different comfortable abilities when it comes
> to rasing kids. The important thing is to find out were we fit into
> this range with whatever area of decision we are working with if we
> desire to be at peace.
>

http://www.boston.com/news/globe/ideas/articles/2004/08/29/the_temperamentalist?mode...

The temperamentalist

Harvard psychologist Jerome Kagan argues that inborn temperament stays
with us through our lives. But critics say his own ideas are less than
consistent.
By Christopher Shea | August 29, 2004

ATTENTION, NEW PARENTS. Jerome Kagan, a professor emeritus of
psychology at Harvard, has devised a fun little test for you. At 4
months old, plop your baby into a bouncy seat and present him with a
series of colorful new toys - ones he's never seen - one after the
other, for 20 seconds at a time. Does he cry madly and shake his arms
and legs? If yes, be forewarned: Your baby may be at higher risk for
"developing serious anxiety over social interactions" a decade down
the road.

If he screams at 4 months, he'll be more likely to stay home from
junior-high dances. If he screams, he'll be more likely to answer "no"
when a psychologist asks, at age 11, "Are you happy most of the time?"

It won't really matter if you cuddled your child as an infant or
showered him with play dates as a toddler. He'll probably never be a
brash CEO or politician, although he might become a brilliant solitary
researcher or a melancholy poet.

On the other hand, if your baby just stares calmly at the toys, he
will be calm on dates but also slightly more likely to become a
delinquent, because parental threats won't faze him.

Although he would hate to hear it put this way, biology does sound an
awful lot like destiny in Kagan's new book, "The Long Shadow of
Temperament" (Harvard), which he co-wrote with his colleague Nancy
Snidman. It comes as the much-honored professor - who in 2002 ranked
22d on one psychology journal's list of the top psychologists of the
20th century, one notch above Carl Jung - prepares to shut down his
famous child-development lab at Harvard after four decades. (Kagan
retired four years ago and Harvard needs the space. Another infant lab
remains open.)

The ancient Greeks were right, Kagan believes. There is such a thing
as temperament - although his discussion of innate personality traits
relies on EEG probes and brain-stem activity, not any musings on the
four humors. The book centers on studies that Kagan and Snidman began
in 1986 with 500 infants. Roughly 20 percent of the babies who
screamed at toys and other unfamiliar stimuli grew into 11-year-olds
who were shy with interviewers and who showed biological signs of
alarm in stressful situations. By contrast, 33 percent of the calm,
cool tykes grew into composed, sociable preteens - "Clint Eastwood
types," as the authors put it, in the case of some boys. "A 45-minute
lab observation of 16-week-old-infants revealed dispositions that were
preserved in some children for over 10 years," the authors write.

Kagan's revival of the old idea of temperament - one he has written
about, with less data, over the last decade - doesn't always go over
well in developmental psychology, where the shaping power of the
environment is still king. In particular, he's caused some backs to
stiffen with his staunch rejection of "attachment theory" - the idea,
pioneered after World War II by British psychiatrist John Bowlby, that
the bond between mother and infant, as measured in the first year,
plays a key role in later emotional and even intellectual growth.

Attachment theory holds great sway in the public mind, thanks to
popularizers like the bestselling "attachment parenting" guru William
Sears. It's one reason some doctors rush to get infants into their
mothers arms immediately after birth, and why lactation consultants
tell moms to breast-feed skin-to-skin. Yet Kagan says what's being
measured in the most famous attachment studies is often just
temperament, which he says is largely inherited, or shaped in the
prenatal environment, and only moderately alterable by parents.

An old friend of Kagan's, Lewis P. Lipsitt, professor emeritus of
psychology and human development at Brown, echoes many when he objects
to "the extremity of his position" - his "overemphasis" on hereditary
and biological factors. (In the new book, Kagan even endorses the idea
that introverts are more likely to have certain physical
characteristics, like lean builds and blue eyes.) Yet whether or not
Kagan is right about the importance of temperament, Lipsett says,
"he's gotten the dialogue going and has incensed enough people to get
them working harder on the issue."

Indeed, attachment theorists are not the only ones to bear the brunt
of Kagan's polemical energy. He condemns evolutionary psychologists
(who see Darwinian selection at work in many human psychological
traits) as apologists of "selfishness" and has directed withering fire
at Judith Rich Harris, author of "The Nurture Assumption" (1998), who
argues that parents play little role in shaping their children's basic
personality traits. (Peer influence, she believes, mold what's not
shaped by genes.) "I am embarrassed for psychology," he told Newsweek
when her book came out in 1998.

Yet not everyone thinks Kagan's various polemical attacks are
consistent. Robert Plomin, a professor of behavioral genetics at
King's College London (whose work Judith Harris cited approvingly),
says: "Although he was very anti-genetic for quite a long time, he
seemed to switch to a pro-genetic stance in the 1990s. We published
several papers together showing genetic influence. But now he seems to
be becoming less genetic."

"It's hard to know," Plomin concludes, "if he is a bellwether or just
blowing in the wind."

To some, Kagan is an iconoclast, to others the ultimate defender of
the psychological establishment. But whichever it is, the arguments
that swirl around him serve as proof of just how unsettled the field
of developmental psychology is.

By Kagan's own account, the study of infant psychology was a
"wasteland" when he joined the field in the 1950s. Not long after
graduate work at Yale, he found himself at the Fels Research Institute
in Yellow Springs, Ohio, where he became involved in one of the first
grand longitudinal psychological studies. Kagan's task was to study a
group of just over 100 white males and females, born between 1929 and
1931 - tracked afterward by the Fels center - and to chart the
consistencies of personality traits and the effects of parenting
styles. The resulting book, published in 1962, is still cited by
scholars for, among other things, its finding that young boys and
girls with the most stereotypically masculine and feminine styles
carry those traits into adulthood.

Harvard recruited Kagan in 1964 to start up a human-development
program in its psychology department, and the nearly 400 papers he has
produced since then pepper every developmental psychology textbook.
Kagan has shown, for example, that young children have distinctive
thinking styles - some leap to conclusions, while others ponder - and
that even babies in their second year show signs of grappling with
their consciences. In 1978, he produced one of the first studies
showing that good day care did not harm the development even of
children who entered at 3 months of age.

An "epiphany," Kagan says, came in 1972, when he studied infants in a
poor village in northwest Guatemala, where children were kept from
almost all social contact the first year of their life because parents
feared evil spirits. At 1, they were pathetic in appearance and - to
American eyes - retarded in physical and mental development. "But when
you walked around the village, you saw that at 5 they were as lively
as Cambridge kids," he says. Kagan started to think the way infants
were treated in the first months couldn't be as important as
psychologists thought.

Now he looks back in embarrassment at the degree to which the notion
of the blank slate held sway only a half-century ago. "In my first
academic job I taught hundreds of students that you could produce an
autistic child if a mother was cold and unresponsive," he says, an
idea discredited a generation ago by genetic studies. "That is
incredible."

His first experiment on temperament came in 1979, but the present
project began seven years later, when he and Snidman began dangling
those toys in front of the 500 babies. Twenty percent of the babies
showed distressed "crying and vigorous pumping of the legs and arms,
sometimes with arching of the back" on at least 40 percent of the
trials. These were classified as "high reactive." Forty percent showed
little motion or emotion and were dubbed "low reactive." The rest fell
somewhere in the middle.

Many of the children returned to the lab at 2, 4, and 7 for follow-up
tests. Finally, between ages 10 and 12, 237 of the original subjects
got a full battery of brain scans, heart-rate analyses, and body-
temperature readings, both at rest and during moments of stress, as
when they were asked out of the blue to give a speech.

The key finding was that about 20 percent of the high reactives
preserved both their dislike for the new and strange, manifested now
by shyness, and also gave off biological signals that they were
stressed. A third of the low reactives remained calm and collected in
the face of strange situations. Many infants drift toward the gray
middle of behaviors - a sign of the importance of parents and the
environment, Kagan thinks (though many high reactives who appeared
outwardly calm betrayed anxiety when hooked up to electrodes). Yet
only 5 percent in each category switch from one to the other extreme.
You can't turn a screamer into a cool customer.

While these findings are interesting in themselves, the study may gain
more attention for the theoretical arguments Kagan draws from it, for
it constitutes yet another weapon in his longstanding battle against
attachment theory.

The classic attachment experiment, developed by Bowlby's protege Mary
Ainsworth and known as the "Strange Situation," examines how
distressed a child gets, in the lab, when he or she is left alone, or
with a stranger, by her mother. Children who cry the hardest, and who
later resist their mothers' attempts to comfort them, are graded as
less securely attached than those who cry less and settle down
quickly.

Yet it's possible, Kagan says, that those poor kids "could have a
wonderful mother, and made a very secure attachment with her, but they
may have a high-reactive temperament, and so they couldn't be
soothed." Attachment theory, he says (echoing its feminist critics),
places unfair blame on moms.

Everett Waters, a professor of psychology at SUNY-Stony Brook, says
that attachment theorists knocked down Kagan's arguments years ago. If
attachment studies measured temperament, he says, researchers would
not have found that the bonds between mother and child change when Mom
experiences a stressful life change, for example.

Waters believes temperament is a real thing that interacts with
parenting styles to determine personality - and wishes Kagan had left
it at that. "That's important," he says, but "it's not as interesting
as throwing over John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth," alluding to Kagan's
own combative temperament.

In a way, it is curious that Kagan has taken such a consistently all-
or-nothing view of attachment theory, since he has been highly
critical of scholars who take similarly absolute positions in other
areas. Judith Harris, for instance, a successful writer of child
psychology textbooks who received a master's in psychology at Harvard
before Kagan got there, argues that modern psychologists have failed
to prove any influence of parents on their children's basic
personality, beyond the genetic. Invariably, she says, the studies
that Kagan cites to demonstrate parental effects fail to sort out
genes and local environment.

Harris's work is "total nonsense," Kagan says today, reiterating his
earlier harsh words. Her book, he says, "was a media event. It had
nothing to do with science. If the media had not hyped it - partly
because it was so crazy - nobody would know about her."

Yet Harvard psychologist Steven Pinker, author of "The Blank Slate:
The Modern Denial of Human Nature," calls Kagan's attacks on Harris "a
classic example of what the historians of science talk about when they
say the establishment tries to dismiss radical challenges." He adds,
"I actually found Jerry's reaction puzzling. There's no reason for him
- himself having been an advocate of the effect of genetics - to
insist so dogmatically on the importance of parents. I think the data
are against him there."

Harris herself, reached by e-mail at her home in Middletown, N.J.,
says that studies of twins reared apart "fail to support Kagan's
belief that the right kind of parenting can make a child less timid."
Twins reared apart, she says, are no more different in basic
temperament than twins reared together.

Nathan Fox, a former student of Kagan's, now a professor of human
development at the University of Maryland, says that a recent study by
Avshalom Caspi of the University of Wisconsin proves the greater
wisdom of Kagan's position. The study, which Fox says represents "the
future of psychology," demonstrated that mistreated boys who inherited
a highly active version of one gene crucial in brain chemistry later
proved to be more resilient than boys with a weak version. "That is
what Kagan has been talking about," Fox says - the delicate
interaction between parental behavior (abuse, in this case) and genes.

Harris has her own problems with that study and says she has never
claimed that abuse doesn't matter. But whatever further research
shows, Kagan is unlikely to be shaken by the brickbats that come his
way. He had some anxious days as a kid, he recalls. But this Harvard
legend has since been self-diagnosed as a low reactive - the cool,
composed, Clint Eastwood type.

Christopher Shea writes the biweekly Critical Faculties column for
Ideas. E-mail: critical.faculties@verizon.net.
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