| Re: Sending the Right Signals |
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Group: alt.philosophy · Group Profile
Author: Langevinger66Langevinger66 Date: Sep 19, 2008 12:34
On Sep 19, 9:22Â pm, Langevinger66 hotmail.com> wrote:
> On 19 sep, 20:26, Langevinger66 hotmail.com> wrote:
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>> On 19 sep, 19:41, Joseph William Stasaitis gmail.com> wrote:
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>>> Carl Gustav Jung, a well-known 20th century  Swiss psychiatrist and
>>> founder of analytical psychology, in his book “Symbols of
>>> Transformation”, speaks about the process of “antiadromia”.  This is
>>> the process of converting something into its opposite. Â In other
>>> words, getting the opposite of what you want. Â In our interactions
>>> with children this is something to guard against. Â When we have our
>>> “plan of action” together we present an aura and stance of self
>>> confidence, and assertively request what we desire from our child.
>>> Instead of saying, “You should stop that or you will get
>>> consequences”, a better way to reframe is, “You might stop yelling if
>>> you don’t wish to get consequences”.  “Might” rather than “should”
>>> will help us connect to the child at a higher vibrational level. Â They
>>> are more willing to HEAR “might” than “should”.
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>> wonder if they killed van gogh
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