> On 19 sep, 19:41, Joseph William Stasaitis gmail.com> wrote:
>

>> Carl Gustav Jung, a well-known 20th century  Swiss psychiatrist and
>> founder of analytical psychology, in his book “Symbols of
>> Transformation”, speaks about the process of “antiadromia”.  This is
>> the process of converting something into its opposite.  In other
>> words, getting the opposite of what you want.  In our interactions
>> with children this is something to guard against.  When we have our
>> “plan of action” together we present an aura and stance of self
>> confidence, and assertively request what we desire from our child.
>> Instead of saying, “You should stop that or you will get
>> consequences”, a better way to reframe is, “You might stop yelling if
>> you don’t wish to get consequences”.  “Might” rather than “should”
>> will help us connect to the child at a higher vibrational level.  They
>> are more willing to HEAR “might” than “should”.

>
> wonder if they killed van gogh