> Carl Gustav Jung, a well-known 20th century  Swiss psychiatrist and
> founder of analytical psychology, in his book “Symbols of
> Transformation”, speaks about the process of “antiadromia”.  This is
> the process of converting something into its opposite.  In other
> words, getting the opposite of what you want.  In our interactions
> with children this is something to guard against.  When we have our
> “plan of action” together we present an aura and stance of self
> confidence, and assertively request what we desire from our child.
> Instead of saying, “You should stop that or you will get
> consequences”, a better way to reframe is, “You might stop yelling if
> you don’t wish to get consequences”.  “Might” rather than “should”
> will help us connect to the child at a higher vibrational level.  They
> are more willing to HEAR “might” than “should”.