I have tosay,I am pro-life and it is a genuine concern to me that
women make some effort to ignor all the healtht advice and the
rubbish about delaying pregnancy/childbirth/ & childcare,until
after the birth. Many women are not fortunate in their fertile times
to concieve as they wanted to imagine...and of course its 'a womans
body' event et al. So I'm not really into the dream of successful
similar sex partnerings... unless both or one has had some minor
skirmish copulatory thrill, (or downright humbling, superior or
whattodo)
with a member of the opposing party.
You will be thrilled to know that I have asked one of my girl-friends
if she has considered marriage? ...what about sex first? you may
be asking...well..I'm not sure if sex is prerequisite for successful
partnerings, but she did pass me a shy glance and we were so
consumed with the passion at that
moment...considering the speed
at which she was driving, I almost forgot to accept it!
I would have no problem with her adding a child in this direction,
because of course I adore them...but I think she could have emotional
difficulty ajusting if the situation was reversed.