> Thank you for this very interesting passage, Immortalist!
>
> The notion of Dissonance Reduction reminds me of C.S. Peirce's notion
> of philosophical tenacity -- that once our lives are reasonably
> settled, we do not like to have the fundamental conceptual pillars of
> our lives shaken.
>
> As is said at the conclusion of the passage quoted above:
>
> "In sum, whether we are talking about appliances or romantic partners,
> once a firm commitment has been made, people tend to focus on the
> positive aspects of their choices and to downplay the attractive
> qualities of the unchosen alternatives."
>
> Well expressed.
>
> Thanks again....
>