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I Am So Embarrassed!         


Author: Sir Frederick
Date: Dec 22, 2006 06:14

Actually not. However, there are several here that should be.
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http://www.newscientist.com/channel/being-human/mg19225836.100-the-word-embarrassment...
The word: Embarrassment
23 December 2006
From New Scientist Print Edition.

THINK back to the last time you felt embarrassed. Perhaps it was being reminded of your air guitar playing after one too many at the
office Christmas party. Whenever it was, you're not alone - embarrassment is a universal emotion. And while it mostly serves us
well, new research shows that some people go to such lengths to avoid feeling it that they risk illness and possibly even death.

What kind of emotion is embarrassment? It's certainly uncomfortable and usually involves feelings of fear, awkwardness or
uncertainty. It's often likened to a mild form of shame, but unlike shame it only occurs in the presence of other people. It is
triggered by the anticipation of your reputation being damaged, or when a social situation suddenly takes an unexpected turn and you
don't know what to do next.

The purpose of embarrassment is thought to be to appease others and iron out awkward moments by signalling a form of non-verbal
apology. It seems to work: research has shown that people who exhibit embarrassment in social situations, such as when they knock
over a display in a supermarket, are liked more by observers than those who don't. It doesn't pay to overdo it, though. Intense
embarrassment, rather than signalling awareness that you've violated a social norm, might signify a personality flaw.
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Re: I Am So Embarrassed!         


Author: Wordsmith
Date: Dec 22, 2006 10:10

On Dec 22, 7:14 am, Sir Frederick fuzzysys.com> wrote:
> Actually not. However, there are several here that should be.
> ---------------------------------------------------------------------------­-----http://www.newscientist.com/channel/being-human/mg19225836.100-the-wo...
> The word: Embarrassment
> 23 December 2006
> From New Scientist Print Edition.
>
> THINK back to the last time you felt embarrassed. Perhaps it was being reminded of your air guitar playing after one too many at the
> office Christmas party. Whenever it was, you're not alone - embarrassment is a universal emotion. And while it mostly serves us
> well, new research shows that some people go to such lengths to avoid feeling it that they risk illness and possibly even death.
>
> What kind of emotion is embarrassment? It's certainly uncomfortable and usually involves feelings of fear, awkwardness or
> uncertainty. It's often likened to a mild form of shame, but unlike shame it only occurs in the presence of other people. It is
> triggered by the anticipation of your reputation being damaged, or when a social situation suddenly takes an unexpected turn and you
> don't know what to do next.
>
> The purpose of embarrassment is thought to be to appease others and iron out awkward moments by signalling a form of non-verbal
> apology. It seems to work: research has shown that people who exhibit embarrassment in social situations, such as when they knock
> over a display in a supermarket, are liked more by observers than those who don't. It doesn't pay to overdo it, though. Intense
> embarrassment, rather than signalling awareness that you've violated a social norm, might signify a personality flaw. ...
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Re: I Am So Embarrassed!         


Author: Immortalist
Date: Dec 22, 2006 10:20

Sir Frederick wrote:
> Actually not. However, there are several here that should be.
> --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
> http://www.newscientist.com/channel/being-human/mg19225836.100-the-word-embarrassment...
> The word: Embarrassment
> 23 December 2006
> From New Scientist Print Edition.
>
> THINK back to the last time you felt embarrassed. Perhaps it was being reminded of your air guitar playing after one too many at the
> office Christmas party. Whenever it was, you're not alone - embarrassment is a universal emotion. And while it mostly serves us
> well, new research shows that some people go to such lengths to avoid feeling it that they risk illness and possibly even death.
>

Embarrassment is an unpleasant emotional state experienced upon having
a socially unacceptable act or condition witnessed by or revealed to
others.

It is similar to shame, except that shame may be experienced for an act
known only to oneself. Also, embarrassment usually carries the
connotation of being caused by an act that is merely socially
unacceptable, rather than morally wrong.
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Re: I Am So Embarrassed!         


Author: Gordon Hill
Date: Dec 22, 2006 18:18

Wordsmith wrote:
> On Dec 22, 7:14 am, Sir Frederick fuzzysys.com> wrote:
>> Actually not. However, there are several here that should be.
>> ---------------------------------------------------------------------------­-----http://www.newscientist.com/channel/being-human/mg19225836.100-the-wo...
>> The word: Embarrassment
>> 23 December 2006
>> From New Scientist Print Edition.
>>
>> THINK back to the last time you felt embarrassed. Perhaps it was being reminded of your air guitar playing after one too many at the
>> office Christmas party. Whenever it was, you're not alone - embarrassment is a universal emotion. And while it mostly serves us
>> well, new research shows that some people go to such lengths to avoid feeling it that they risk illness and possibly even death.
>>
>> What kind of emotion is embarrassment? It's certainly uncomfortable and usually involves feelings of fear, awkwardness or
>> uncertainty. It's often likened to a mild form of shame, but unlike shame it only occurs in the presence of other people. It is
>> triggered by the anticipation of your reputation being damaged, or when a social situation suddenly takes an unexpected turn and you
>> don't know what to do next.
>>
>> The purpose of embarrassment is thought to be to appease others and iron out awkward moments by signalling a form of non-verbal
>> apology. It seems to work: research has shown that people who exhibit embarrassment in social situations, such as when they knock
>> over a display in a supermarket, are liked more by observers than those who don't. It doesn't pay to overdo it, though. Intense ...
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Re: I Am So Embarrassed!         


Author: Bret Cahill
Date: Dec 22, 2006 20:00

I can outdrink Boris Yeltsin and the Bush twins combined.

Next question?

Bret Cahill
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