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Re: For inner peace : Excellence of fasting during Ramadan - the most excellent arrangement for spiritual development. It was also made obligatory on the followers of the earlier prophets of God for the purification of soul. Fasting is a training process         

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Author: V
Date: Sep 16, 2007 06:23

On Sep 16, 5:34?am, LOVE FOR ALL HATRED FOR NONE yahoo.com>
wrote:
> Peace be upon you and everyone.
> =1=This month of fasting is the most excellent arrangement for
> spiritual development, righteousness, seeking Divine nearness,
> attaining acceptance to one's prayer, and developing in religious,
> moral and spiritual ways.[ Al Baqarah (2:184)]
> =2=Fasting was also made obligatory on the followers of the earlier
> prophets of God for the purification of soul..... And among them only
> those became the recipient of blessings who abided by the commandment
> without any protest, who put the teaching in practice and excelled in
> righteousness (taqwa)...... However, when they rejected the teachings,
> they lost their worldly glory as well as their standards of
> spirituality plummeted. ......Indeed when Allah enjoins the followers of
> prophets of God to adopt righteousness, He declares that it would lead
> them to the blessings of this world and the Hereafter [Al Rahman
> (55:47)]......It is vital to recognize the lofty station of God in order
> to develop in righteousness and to be the recipient of His blessings
> and this will come to pass when His commandments are followed with
> sincerity of purpose..... One of these commandments is to fast.
> =3=Fortunate are the adherents of the perfect Book, the everlasting
> Shariah, and the last law-bearing Prophet (peace and blessings of
> Allah be on him) who was granted excellence over all the other
> prophets by being given the title of Seal-of-all-the-
> prophets (Khatam un Nabiyyeen)..... He brought the message of
> Qur'an for establishing righteousness, a message that is still fresh
> today and shall always remain so.....Commandments of this last law-
> bearing Book expects from believers to endeavour for the attainment of
> the blessing that this Book mentions and to assume the undertaking
> for which God and His Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be on him)
> have shown us the way.
> =4= It is indeed God's promise that He guides those to Him who come
> towards Him with absolute sincerity. [Al Ankabut (29:70)].....He runs to
> those who at least walk towards Him.... A great source to attain
> nearness to God is fasting... A Hadith relates that the Holy Prophet
> (peace and blessings of Allah be on him) said that Allah puts a
> distance of more than 70%% (Arabic idiom meaning a great deal) between
> the face of a person who fasts in the way of Allah seeking His
> blessings and fire.....Indeed it is vital to fast in the quest of
> Allah's grace and if the attainment of His pleasure is the sole
> objective, He not only saves one from the fire but also grants the
> paradise of His pleasure, in this world and the Hereafter.
> =5=The Promised Messiah (on whom be peace) said that one who makes a
> solemn endeavour to seek Allah never fails. He said that if we can
> feel compassion for a student who works hard for school exams how
> could God not have mercy and compassion to allow one who endeavours to
> seek him to come near Him? Certainly not.
> =6=According to a hadith: Allah declares that each act of man is for
> himself, apart for fasting. Fasting is for Allah and Allah alone is
> its reward. Another Hadith reiterates this point that fasting is done
> for Allah and only Allah knows the real reward of a person who fasts.
> =7=Just as Allah's attributes are countless so is the extent of His
> reward, however, He has set some limitations for the attainment of His
> reward..... For example during fasting one is not required to merely
> starve oneself, rather one has to make an endeavour to shun all sorts
> of worldly and carnal desires, only then it may be deemed that fasting
> is for Allah alone.... Similarly the avoidance from the ills is not to
> be temporary and brief, rather it has to be a permanent effort.
> =8=Indeed Allah knows what is in one's heart, is aware of the
> intention behind each deed, has knowledge of what is apparent and what
> is hidden, if a person fasts with Allah's attributes in mind, that
> fasting would be rewarded.
> =9=When a person who is fasting responds to an abuse by saying that as
> they are fasting they will not respond in kind, it does not mean that
> after breaking the fast they are at liberty to retaliate, not at all.
> ....Fasting is a training process during which one is trained to eschew
> bad habits for good, that is the reason why a Hadith relates that when
> a person who fast sincerely meets his Maker he will be happy...... It is
> not just thirty days' effort that will give him happiness, rather he
> will be happy because he would have had an opportunity to make an
> endeavour to avoid bad habits and that person would thus greet each
> Ramadan of his life until he attains the station where he will be the
> recipient of Allah's pleasure.
> =10= A Hadith terms fasting as a shield: the important thing is to be
> able to utilise this 'shield' to protect oneself from the attacks of
> the Satan, the most dangerous of all enemies.... A believer can be safe
> by means of this 'shield' through worship of God and by staying firm
> on His commandments.
> =11=The teaching of the earlier prophets was temporary, it was for a
> temporary period of time. With the teaching diminished, its freshness
> and righteousness/taqwa also fainted..... The teaching of the Holy
> Qur'an is eternal.....Worldly desires crept into the fasting of other
> religions.... One need to constantly make endeavours to keep the
> standards of our righteousness / taqwa high and should try to the best
> of his/her ability or capacity to attain the lofty standards..... Allah
> has shown the believers all the ways and can only justifiably called
> Khair e Ummah ( best of groups of people ) when they can attain these
> standards.... The acts that are done to seek the pleasure of Allah are
> indeed what righteousness / taqwa is all about.
> =12= The holy Caliph also prayed for Allah's help for making solemn
> endeavour to attain righteousness /taqwa... He referred to The Promised
> Messiah (on whom be peace) who said that fasting is about forsaking
> one kind of nourishment (food) to seek the other kind of nourishment
> which is for the soul. Allah opens up ways of guidance and spiritual
> discernment for those who seek Him with truthfulness of heart.....May
> Allah enable us that we fast while making the attainment of His
> pleasure our objective, may we attain spiritual discernment which
> becomes a lasting part of our lives and which enhances us in e
> righteousness each moment....
> Promised divine peace of latter days @ www.alislam.org www.mta.tv
> with
> LOVE FOR ALL HATRED FOR NONE.

Now, fasting will help allow inner peace to flourish, but if a man
cultivates thoughts of the wrong nature, inner peace will still elude
him.

The thoughts you foster encompasses all that you are

"A mans mind may be likened to a garden which may be intelligently
cultivated or allowed to run wild; but whether cultivated or
neglected, it must and will bring forth. If no useful seeds are put
into it, then an abundance of useless 'weed seeds' will fall therein
and will continue to produce their kind." ~ James Allen

French psychotherapist Emile Coue (1857 - 1926) came up with this
famous saying; "Every day, in every way, I am getting better and
better." He wrote "If our unconscious is the source of many of our
evils - it can also bring the cure. You have in yourself this
instrument of your cure."

Sometimes this simple technique of Coue's, worked miracles in cases of
health improvement for persons using this daily suggestion.

We are all born with a clean and sterile "garden" of a mind.
Everything we plant in this garden is from our own efforts and
thoughts. And as the good book said - "as yea sow - so yea reap."

You many times hear a phrase thrown around in 12 step circles,
"Stinkin Thinkin" which is another way of describing negative self
talk. I often hear addicts beating themselves up with their own mouth
continually programming themselves with many of these comments:

"I am no good"
"I'm a failure"
"Diets don't work for me"
"I can't lose weight"
"What's the use in trying"
"With my luck only bad will come out of it"
"I'm too old to try"
"I can't stand the snow"
"I can't remember anything - my brain is sh*t"
"What do you expect - I'm just a drunk?"
"I'm too fat to do it"
"I'm in a daze all the time"
"My marriage is on the rocks"
"I'm a mess"
"My house is a mess"
"I am always late"
"I'm sickly"
"There is something wrong with me"
"I'm a screw-up"
"I feel like I'm dying"
"What a pain in the ass"
"I'm always bouncing checks"
"I can't help myself"
"I always get sick this time of year"
"I always pick out an abuser"
"I'm always upset"
"I'm depressed"
"I'm stubborn"
"I feel like sh*t"
"Everything I touch turns to crap"
"I can't remember anything"
"I shop till I drop"
"I can't do any thing right"
"I'm no good with directions"
"I always hurt the one I love"
"I can't read a map"
"I can't cook anything - I burn water"
"No one likes me"
"I'm no good with names"
"I never win anything"
"I'm not very smart"
'I can't figure it out"
"It's my cross I have to bear"
"I'm not too sharp"
"I'm no good with computers"
"I'm always late with the rent"
"I can't balance my checkbook"
"I'm unlucky"
"I can never get any sleep"
"Whenever it rains I feel blue"
"I wish I was dead"
"I can't save a penny"
"I'm no good with numbers"
"I know it is good for me...but I still wont do it"
"This is a pain in the neck"
"My back is killing me"
"I can never figure women / men out"
"It's my Karma"
"My head is splitting"
"Everything I eat turns to fat"
"I don't like fruit or vegetables"
"Why doesn't anything ever go right for me?"
"I'm so stressed out"
"I'm always hungry"
'Why does (it) always happen to me?"
"I always end up offending people"
"My boss always ends up hating me"
"I'm no good at sports"
"I'm a klutz'
"I hate to exercise"
"I'm always making the wrong choices"
...and on and on.

Notice anything repetitive about these statements?

Many are in absolute terms that specify always, everything, every
time, never. While many of these statements can apply to some of us
one time or another, few of them are hard and fast 100%% rules in our
lives.

Yet, we are working overtime to make sure they do become us 100%% at
every turn.

This type of thinking just programs our minds and our bodies to
accomplish these tasks as we ask our subconscious to do these things.

Sometimes this programing starts passively by another's offhand
comment to us or even when we are kids and our parents or other adults
tell us such things. Then little by little they creep into our mind
and take hold.

Now we don't have to be perfect with changing our talk or our life,
but we can be aware of how we talk to ourselves and make an effort to
change our thoughts so they can work for us instead of against us.

To develop a desire to change, we must first recognize there is a
problem or sickness in us. Recognition or awareness is the fist step
leading to the desire to change.

An important thing to remember with change is the 3-D's: Desire,
Determination and Diligence.

Desire:

Desire is the foundation for all recovery quests. You cannot help
someone without the desire in them to be helped. Desire is what gets
us taking that first step in the right direction when all seems
hopeless.

Have you every tried to give advice or help someone in need and they
respond: "I don't care." They lack the desire or at least this is what
they say. Desire must come from within, you cannot force someone to
change, they must change themselves.

To develop a desire to change, we must first recognize there is a
problem or sickness in us.

Recognition or awareness is the first step leading to desire. After we
recognize we are sick or an area of our lives is out of balance, we
can start accepting the fact that we need to take action in this
area.

When we label addicts or people as "in denial," we are saying the
person is not able to recognize there is a problem in their lives that
needs addressing.

Now some people recognize there is a problem in their life, but still
don't develop a burning desire for change, but at least they have a
somewhat true picture of things and just haven't made the crossover to
developing the desire to change bad enough.

Whether their block is out of fear, laziness or staying in a
comfortable place, they will have to figure out what is blocking them
before they can take the next step. As I said, we cannot force someone
to change, they must change themselves and it must be from the inside
out.

Determination:

Determination serves two purposes here. When something is "determined"
it is accepted as fact.

We have determined that we are powerless over our addiction and our
lives are unmanageable. We have determined we must abstain from
certain people, places or things that we cannot comfortably have in
our lives.

We are in the process of determining a new set of rules on how to
live. We have also determined what injuries we have caused and what
needs to be repaired through taking personal inventory.

Determination serves a second purpose and that is it keeps us on the
long road to recovery. We cannot keep on this long road without being
determined to change our lives day in day out.

Whether it is debt recovery, clutter, restructuring our complex lives
or losing weight it all takes time and determination to stay on the
path of recovery.

Many distractions, detours and set backs along the way, but we should
always be determined to keep pointed in the direction of recovery.

Diligence:

Diligence keeps us from going backwards once we finally arrive at the
recovery place we are aiming for.

It takes diligence once we get to where we want to be to maintain that
serene spot, otherwise we fall back on our old "natural" ways of
living.

Once you lose the fat, once you pay off your debts, once you lose the
clutter, once you get sober and abstinent from your drug of choice it
takes diligence to keep you that way. James Allen calls this
watchfulness.

"Victories attained by right thought can only be maintained by
watchfulness. Many give way when success is assured and rapidly fall
back into failure."

As A Man Thinketh by James Allen.

Take care,

V (Male)

Agnostic Freethinker
Practical Philosopher
AA#2
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