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Author: bigfletch8bigfletch8 Date: Jun 18, 2008 19:31
I comment I often hear.
Such frustration comes about because we allow others views of our
actions to have an effect on us, and is only a result of the observer
'putting themselves (mentally projecting) into your position' , which
is the basis of illusion, and the cause of all interpersonal conflict.
How could they not see differently? They are not you, and have their
own unique accumulation of experiences.
Just because you become aware of this reality, dont expect others to.
In fact, it can present a greater challenge to those who try to be
sure of themselves by convincing others.
The cause of all religions.
BOfL
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Author: kevirwinkevirwin Date: Jun 18, 2008 19:48
On Jun 18, 10:31 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
wrote:> I comment I often hear.
>
> Such frustration comes about because we allow others views of our
> actions to have an effect on us, and is only a result of the observer
> 'putting themselves (mentally projecting) into your position' , which
> is the basis of illusion, and the cause of all interpersonal conflict.
>
> How could they not see differently? They are not you, and have their
> own unique accumulation of experiences.
>
> Just because you become aware of this reality, dont expect others to.
> In fact, it can present a greater challenge to those who try to be
> sure of themselves by convincing others.
>
> The cause of all religions.
>
> BOfL
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Author: bigfletch8bigfletch8 Date: Jun 19, 2008 08:21
On Jun 19, 12:48 pm, kevirwin comcast.net> wrote:> On Jun 18, 10:31 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>> I comment I often hear.
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>> Such frustration comes about because we allow others views of our
>> actions to have an effect on us, and is only a result of the observer
>> 'putting themselves (mentally projecting) into your position' , which
>> is the basis of illusion, and the cause of all interpersonal conflict.
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>> How could they not see differently? They are not you, and have their
>> own unique accumulation of experiences.
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>> Just because you become aware of this reality, dont expect others to.
>> In fact, it can present a greater challenge to those who try to be ...
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Author: kevirwinkevirwin Date: Jun 19, 2008 12:31
On Jun 19, 11:21 am, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
wrote:> On Jun 19, 12:48 pm, kevirwin comcast.net> wrote:
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>>> On Jun 18, 10:31 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>> I comment I often hear.
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>>> Such frustration comes about because we allow others views of our
>>> actions to have an effect on us, and is only a result of the observer
>>> 'putting themselves (mentally projecting) into your position' , which
>>> is the basis of illusion, and the cause of all interpersonal conflict.
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>>> How could they not see differently? They are not you, and have their
>>> own unique accumulation of experiences. ...
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Author: T-minus108T-minus108 Date: Jun 19, 2008 16:39
On Jun 18, 10:31 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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> Just because you become aware of this reality, dont expect others to.
> In fact, it can present a greater challenge to those who try to be
> sure of themselves by convincing others.
>
> The cause of all religions.
So true. I often find myself explaining something, just to realize
later that they probably would have understood it better if I hadn't
explained it at all, and had just let them figure it out for
themselves.
But if you never bring it up, or it's never spoken of, would they
figure it out? Probably. All in good time.
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Author: bigfletch8bigfletch8 Date: Jun 19, 2008 17:25
On Jun 20, 9:39 am, T-minus108 gmail.com> wrote:> On Jun 18, 10:31 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>> Just because you become aware of this reality, dont expect others to.
>> In fact, it can present a greater challenge to those who try to be
>> sure of themselves by convincing others.
>
>> The cause of all religions.
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> So true. I often find myself explaining something, just to realize
> later that they probably would have understood it better if I hadn't
> explained it at all, and had just let them figure it out for
> themselves.
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> But if you never bring it up, or it's never spoken of, would they
> figure it out? Probably. All in good time.
We all need to pass on what we know, whether it is in the way we
behave, verbally or artistically.
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Author: bigfletch8bigfletch8 Date: Jun 19, 2008 17:31
On Jun 20, 5:31 am, kevirwin comcast.net> wrote:> On Jun 19, 11:21 am, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>> On Jun 19, 12:48 pm, kevirwin comcast.net> wrote:>
>>> On Jun 18, 10:31 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>>> I comment I often hear.
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>>>> Such frustration comes about because we allow others views of our
>>>> actions to have an effect on us, and is only a result of the observer
>>>> 'putting themselves (mentally projecting) into your position' , which
>>>> is the basis of illusion, and the cause of all interpersonal conflict.
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Author: T-minus108T-minus108 Date: Jun 19, 2008 18:58
On Jun 19, 8:25 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>> On Jun 18, 10:31 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>> Just because you become aware of this reality, dont expect others to.
>>> In fact, it can present a greater challenge to those who try to be
>>> sure of themselves by convincing others.
>
>>> The cause of all religions.
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>> So true. I often find myself explaining something, just to realize
>> later that they probably would have understood it better if I hadn't
>> explained it at all, and had just let them figure it out for ...
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Author: bigfletch8bigfletch8 Date: Jun 20, 2008 03:13
On Jun 20, 11:58 am, T-minus108 gmail.com> wrote:> On Jun 19, 8:25 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>> On Jun 20, 9:39 am, T-minus108 gmail.com> wrote:>
>>> On Jun 18, 10:31 pm, "bigflet...@ gmail.com" gmail.com>
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>>>> Just because you become aware of this reality, dont expect others to.
>>>> In fact, it can present a greater challenge to those who try to be
>>>> sure of themselves by convincing others.
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>>>> The cause of all religions.
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>>> So true. I often find myself explaining something, just to realize ...
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