> On Sep 8, 4:24 pm, dead  wrote:
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>> on the other hand we do develop split personas
>> especially when sex is involved.... people make
>> almost a sex version of themself they turn on in
>> particular situations,

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> Who is this "we" you speak of?  Perhaps young, insecure, inexperienced
> people with sexual-moral hangups, but not the rest of us.

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>> i have a kinda
>> split way about things, feeling too sensitive
>> to a person puts me off the way i'd like sex
>> to be, and if i sexualize a person love might
>> be harder, but ive been learning to integrate.

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> What you need to do is get over your sexual-moral hangups and guilty
> feelings about the way you'd like sex to be.  That's how you will be
> able to "integrate".