As most of you know - I'm a woman who has dabbled in magic, embraced
Zen. see's the worth of pyrronhism, and generally (after a major
indedent involving everything in a golden all) - (not helpful without
salt) has tried to move away from the more supertitious belief
systems of the major or alternative cultists. Oh yeah - and I'm
aspergers too. I don't think thats very relevent here, except in my
reactions.

What I understand right now, is that NT;s rarely talk about thier
feeling of rejection because when they don't accept it they don't
rejoin the club. The people left on the outside have changes in
brain chemistry that enhances thier feelings of isolation leaving
thier reaction to rejection enhanced.

I'm a social being who messes up social interaction by being
distracted by everything else in the moment - or if focused on a
single individual then I see more than I wanted too or is acceptable
to see by the rest of society.

"Executive Function" hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:ffae5351-52ad-4c95-b52d-9f03d50243eb@8g2000hse.googlegroups.com...

A very good way to counter a feeling of rejection is to rejoin the club.

Another good way to counter a feeling of rejection is to regard all other
rejects as part of a club to which you belong.

"There are two kinds of people in the world: those who think there are two
kinds of people in the world and those who don't."

On Jun 8, 12:24 pm, Executive Function
hotmail.com> wrote:

Loneliness, we've all been there.

The whole world is going so mad right now that you should never let
yourself feel down because some idiots.
Every talented out-of-the-box thinker, even if they might have
personal disagreements, is of unutterably high worth, intrinsically!
There are far to few brilliant shining stars in a world of dim dead
planets for them to feel like a nova is coming on because they aren't
part of some group.

I keep myself very busy in my activities, and am desperate to find a
means of saving this world, my present home, from the insane greed of
speculators, military greed, and the death of the mind brought on by
the bad media. Even in my down moments that brings me a sense of
purpose and inner peace.

When you stop to think of it, every body is paying almost 4 bux a
gallon of gas... outside of bleeding red, we're all bleeding green now
too.

You sound like a fascinating soul, and believe me, that when the
attacks come on the best thing to do is shake them off like a duck
sloughing off the water.

On Jun 8, 9:24 am, Executive Function wrote:

This is simple. You feel rejected because you care what other people
think of you. Stop caring what others think of you and rejection will
no longer be a problem.

On 8 Jun, 20:40, "Tom" comcast.net> wrote:

On 8 Jun, 22:20, "J.P. \"Julian Sebastian\" Bacchae"
gmail.com> wrote:

On 9 Jun, 00:49, mika gmail.com> wrote:

I don't feel rejected, I was rejected, demonstrably! What people
think of me is just thier opinion. Rejection is a problem if it means
that you don't socialise with other human beings because lack of
social contact is bad for peoples mental health. I'm pretty happy on
my own most of the time but I do need some social interaction from
time to time - offline and in the real world. I seem to require that
more the older I get.

On Jun 9, 9:27 am, Executive Function hotmail.com>
wrote:

Alright, I'll restate. You feel bad about being rejected because you
care what other people think of you. My point remains relevant.
Stop caring what others think of you and rejection will no longer be a
problem.

On 9 Jun, 19:03, mika gmail.com> wrote: