Executive Function
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> On 9 Sep, 01:11, HG wrote:
>> Executive Function
hotmail.com> writes:>>> On 9 Sep, 00:52, Erwin Hessle
erwinhessle.com> wrote:>>>> On Sep 8, 6:28Â pm, Executive Function
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>>>> wrote:>>
>>>>> It isn;t a case of mimicking you to get it right. Â It's a case of -
>>>>> what is right for for you is cool, but doesn't work for me,
>>
>>>> I don't know how many times you have to be told this. You don't have a
>>>> single clue what "works for you". All these obstacles that you talk
>>>> about are entirely in your mind. You have no clue what "works for you"
>>>> because you never actually do anything - whenever there is a
>>>> suggestion, you talk yourself into believing that it doesn't "work for
>>>> you", so you don't do anything, you don't get anywhere, and you don't
>>>> get the feedback that would enable you to determine what does or does
>>>> not "work for you".
>>
>>>> All this sob story crap, all these medical conditions you keep using
>>>> as excuses (which I personally suspect you are just flat out making
>>>> up), is just a lot of imaginary junk that you create to excuse
>>>> yourself from having to deal with the world and to indulge in some
>>>> self-pity in the process.
>>
>>>>> and that's
>>>>> why I need some folks to advise me who know this because the world is
>>>>> not an aspie world.
>>
>>>> See? You invent a whole separate "aspie world" to convince yourself
>>>> that nothing anybody tells you can have any relevance to you since
>>>> they live in an entirely different world, so you can feel good about
>>>> continuing to wallow in your self-restricting fantasies. It's just one
>>>> excuse after another. There's no point in anybody giving you any more
>>>> advice until you stop pulling this shit, because I don't think you're
>>>> even slightly serious about improving your situation.
>>
>>>> Erwin Hessle, 8=3
>>
>>> Now you can stop right there Erwin. Â Unless you have ever had to deal
>>> with overload or meltdown then you don't have a fucking clue what
>>> you're talking about. Â You don't know what it entails, how long it can
>>> affect a person or what the aftermath is. Â You don't know how this
>>> interferes with plans for personal and situational change. Â You also
>>> don't know what it is like to care for someone like me going through
>>> all that. Â Infact - Erwin, unless you will now admit to being
>>> autistic, then you are just being silly.
>>
>> Now stop right there, E.F.
>>
>> "I'm autistic, and that makes me *very special*. Â Non-autistic people
>> complain about their difficult personal problems, but I won't allow it,
>> because *only autistic persons are allowed to have difficult personal
>> problems!*"
>>
>> You are NOT SPECIAL. Â You are NOT DIFFERENT FROM ANYBODY ELSE.
>> EVERYBODY HAS PROBLEMS, autistic or not.
>>
>> Now shut the fuck up, you fucking aspie bigot.
>>
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> *mild*
>
> If I didn't know that already I won't have bothered posting HG. Just
> because everyone has problems doesn't mean that everyone has an
> insight in everyones elses problems however. :P The parrots never
> got on with the hawks in the local nesting tree. That's just fucking
> nature, and I'm not complaining any more than the hawks. I just fly
> off when necessary. Just fuck off and excuse me for mentioning this
> broken wing I had the other night. *sheesh*
You still don't get what I'm trying to say. I'll try again:
You are not the only one who has problems. I'd venture *everybody* in this
newsgroup has problems, either in their present or in their past.
Let's make a partial list of known and major problems suffered by the
denizens of alt.magick:
- Douglas used to be addicted to heroin.
- Mika suffers from arthritis. She tould us she had to endure constant,
unending pain, until she found the right treatments.
- Archie, when he wrote to this group, was a pathological liar. Even when
people pointed out his lies, he would not or could not stop telling them.
- David Cantu told us about his breakdown, which was so severe he had to be
nursed back to sanity in a psychiatric hospital.
- Corey White assaulted an innocent cop and is in jail.
- etc., etc.
So you're an aspie? OK, let's add it to the list:
- Executive Function has Aspergers.
See? You fit right in. Your autism is *nothing special*. Welcome to the
fucking club. Here's your membership card.
Now stop whining about your problems and start fixing them.
You're. Not. Special.
HG
