On 2 Sep, 09:31, HG wrote:
> Executive Function hotmail.com> writes:
>> On 28 Aug, 17:00, "Tom" comcast.net> wrote:
>>> "HG" wrote in message
>
>>>> Your comment got me thinking: Â What if she can't tell the difference
>>>> between someone verbally threatening to kill her, and someone actually
>>>> attempting to kill her?
>
>>>> Nobody has ever tried to kill me for real. Â But there have been times
>>>> when someone has threatened to do so, in the mutual understanding that
>>>> he'll never actually follow through with his threat, he's just sending
>>>> a very strong message.
>
>>>> And remember when Quintal called me a "fascist", which got me upset and
>>>> I told him to kill himself? Â She freaked out:
>
>
>>>> She's an aspie. Â Maybe she just doesn't understand the neurotypical
>>>> behavior of threatening to kill somebody, while never actually
>>>> intending to do it.
>
>>> It's pretty typical for someone with Asperger's Syndrome to take what is
>>> said at face value, since they often have trouble immediately grasping
>>> the nuances of social interactions and predicting others'
>>> behavior. Â Emotional language often does way beyond the facts, which can
>>> be very confusing, even for those of us who are better able to intuit
>>> it.
>
>> Unless of course there is a visable weapon involved. Â Then every NT
>> would say - yeah - thats a threat. Â This is just superiority motivated
>> NT psychobabble.
>
> Oh, for fuck's sake, here we go again.
>
> If aspies were able to function just as well as neurotypicals in every given
> situation, *they wouldn't be aspies.* Â There would not be such a thing as
> "Asperger syndrome".
>
> You play the aspie card every time you want to brag about your l33t a5pie
> skillz, when you want to be Special and Unique.
>
> But when it comes to the *downsides* of being an aspie, you stick your
> fingers to your ears, shut your eyes real tight, and babble about
> "superiority motivated NT psychobabble."
>
> I have been threatened with a visible weapon as well. Â You're not special in
> this matter.
>
> A nutcase pulled a swiss army knife on me at a bus stop, demanding to know
> what "we" were up to. Â She claimed she knew I was working for the FBI. (And
> this happened in Finland...)
>
> But I used my Secret Neurotypical Techniques (that we're taught in a
> Himalayan monastary), and I was able to see the situation as it really was:
> she was not even considering stabbing me. Â She just wanted to intimidate me.
> I was never in any real danger.
>
> And if you really are as good as any neurotypical in judging the motivations
> and intentions of people, then why the fuck did you freak out when I told
> Quintal to go kill himself?
>
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*bugger* HG knows about aspies. Now I'm fucked. lol.
Fine HG, you've made your point. I didn't like the way you
automatically assumed I must have misinterpreted the threat though (I
didn't). You could have asked for clarification about that first.