On 28 Feb, 00:19, mika
gmail.com> wrote:> On Feb 27, 2:29 pm, The Speaking Clock wrote:
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>> If I may ask a question? Â If you had to draw a symbol representing a
>> perfect man - what would you draw?
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> There is no such a thing as "the perfect man", there's only "the
> perfect man for me", and that man is too complex to represent with a
> single, simple symbol. Â I'd draw an image of one of my partners
> though, he's as perfect for me as I ever imagined a man could be.
One woman to another - thats great to hear. I hate to hear women
whining about thier lovers. It's just so fucking insulting.
> What about you then, what would you draw?
Offering from thr crypt. Right now... the dogs have stopped barking
in the distance and my cats will still roam the paremiter in the
night...and I am devistated (and broken hearted) to know... how HE was
initiated and to whom he will not turn his allegence from. I would
like to draw an open square (because I'm reeling) and it's the biggest
factor in my birth chart. Then I'd draw a spiral.
>>> I have no interest in spending my time and energy on people who have
>>> not yet attained a stable, self-sustainable level of inner balance.
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>> And yet you have no way of making a distinction between those that do
>> and those that do not.
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> Sure I do. Â By communicating with them.
Cool, So you can be a mother. :)
>> Or at least - that was the idea.
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> What idea? Â The idea of your original comments in this thread? Â If so,
> that was in reference to an image of a person, not a real live
> person. Â So what exactly are you talking about now - archetypes, or
> real people? Â You do realize they are not interchangeable, right?
Scuse me if I do no give a shit right now.
>> But a mother is not simply someone who propogates a life within
>> herself, only towards her own ospring. Â You have plenty of life
>> experience within you to inform you, even if you have not given
>> birth. Â If you had to draw a symbol of a perfect child - what would
>> you draw?
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> Me? Â I would draw nothing. Â For me, the perfect child is one that does
> not exist.
You exist.
>>> You seem to think recognizing the balance of forces within oneself is
>>> equivalent to having an equal need for motherly nurturing as one has
>>> for expressing power. Â A powerful person can be inwardly balanced yet
>>> still have no desire or need for someone to mother him or her.
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>> I read mother when you say it.... and yet I hear smother, and
>> something else within the context of a power play a hell of a lot less
>> savory, and a lot harder to overcome and balance with.
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> What does that tell you about yourself?
Why? Regonise anyone?
>> A lot more diffcult (for us both) - draw your perfect mother.
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> Please, that's not difficult at all. Â A drawing of my perfect mother
> would be an image of my mother. Â She may have some problems, there
> certainly are aspects of her personality that drive me crazy, but I
> would not be who I am if she were any different. Â I love myself and my
> life, so how could I not consider her to be perfect for me?
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> What about you?
In an unbalanced way - since I've had a shock then I'll answer your
question.
I both love my mother and hate her. In my unbalanced form
(everything is a slow answer with z zero sum noise reply, that took
far too long to type,
