On May 8, 7:38 pm, Dover Beach
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>>> On Thu, 08 May 2008 20:33:57 -0500, QueBarbara
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>>>On 9 May 2008 00:41:56 GMT, Dover Beach
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>>>>My stepson and his girlfriend are coming for a long weekend. Last
>>>>time they were here my husband woke me up at 2:00 AM to yell at me
>>>>because I was insufficiently June Cleaver-ish. So I'm all smiles and
>>>>brownies and simmering rage. Wish me luck!
>
>>>There's something else going on. Even the most casual AFCA visitor
>>>knows you are not very June Cleaver-ish (NTTAWWD, thank god). Mr.
>>>Right has to know that, too. Is he trying to outdo his ex, and
>>>projecting some of that stress onto you?
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>> Er, having seen your reply to Boron's post, I would like to retract
>> this post, since I didn't realize the situation was close to critical
>> mass. Nothing to see here, people, move along. You too especially,
>> shoeless man resembling Mr. Rogers.
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> Yeah, we just had a huge screaming fight about it. Hopefully that will
> clear some stuff up. I mean, it's actually not his fault that he's from
> Presbyterian Indianaland. It flairs up occasionally. Kind of like
> ringworm. I'm not entirely sure what the underlying issues are, but
> obviously both he and I have some doozies going on. My family would
> never have gone two inches out of their way for any of my boyfriends.
> And his family doesn't either! That's what kills me. His mom doesn't
> clean up when I come over. And that's totally fine with me, although
> the bathroom at their house is scary. But I don't want her to make a
> fuss. I don't know. Issues, issues. And Les, go suck a weenie.
I just bought an antique four-stack barrister bookcase. Two weeks ago,
a friend took me in hand and spent the entire weekend clearing off the
kitchen table and moving the computer from the kitchen table to the
desk. The kitchen table is still clear and everything is filed. On
Saturday, I'm helping at at the farm & garden tour (plus playing with
baby kitties!) but on Sunday, I'm going to move the books from the old
bookshelves to the barrister bookcase.
I'm really sorry to read about the wronginess of Mr. Right in
expecting you to be someone else entirely. As others have said, it
sounds like there's something else going on. If you want to fly out to
Santa Cruz and hang for a few days, that would be okay too. You might
be pressed into helping stack and unstack books though.
V.
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Veronique Chez Sheep
