"Onideus Mad Hatter" backwater-productions.net> wrote in message
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: On 28 Mar 2007 21:12:31 -0700, "YosemiteSam" byteme.com>
: wrote:
:
: >On Mar 28, 9:05 pm, "BuZZard" wrote:
: >> ya.. you prolly thought this is going to be one of those
: >> mushy hug your kids post.. NOT!
: >>
: >> First of all.. lets start with cops.. and my 17 year old kid, and
myself..
: >> (ok, its not *my* boy but the way I look at it.. ifn you
: >> put a roof of said kids head for his entire life.. he belongs to me
: >> and not his biological one nut away from being a woman dad).
: >>
: >> He is doing teenage things.. but.. not ordinary teenage things.. he is
: >> rage'n at his mom.. his sister.. and myself.. he threatens to his us..
over
: >> the past year, he grew a foot taller.. so he thinks he is bigger than
his
: >> pants. again.. NOT!
: >>
: >> so he screams in his moms face.. "FUCJ YOU!!!" and she gets in his
face and
: >> yells back... "GET OUT"... then he stomps around.. and threatens to
punch
: >> her square in the jaw!!!!!
: >>
: >> Sunday morning.. he wasnt around.. i was in bed.. she was up and
about.. a
: >> freind stopped over of hers.. and all I hear the mom telling her friend
: >> allllll the problems she is having with her son.. then her daughter
comes
: >> in.. and they like.. gang up on him without him being here.. thats
first..
: >> but it gets worse.. trust me.
: >>
: >> I am pretty fucking pissed about it. I can see thru the bullshzinit.
: >> Then last night.. he comes home.. she comes home.. and in less then 30
: >> mins.. i heard him yell "FUCK YOU MOM" at least.. once a minute for a
total
: >> of 30 times.. mom flat out tells him he isnt getting any money.. (thats
what
: >> it was over, a pack of ciggerettes).
: >> In the meantime.. I am in my room.. hearing this verbal abuse going
on.. so
: >> I call her from my cellphone to hers. and tell her to get on yahoo..
and
: >> click the link i had sent from the night before..
: >> oh ya.. I was maliciously setting up this deal I am going to tell ya
about.
: >> So I am up till 2:30-3am looking for the right link..
: >> turns out it was...www.someshitwithbunchWOUDLE392.comtype of link...
bunch
: >> of digets and letters.. but the headline is what i hunted down.. so
when you
: >> clicked on it.. it said in big bold letters at the top of the page "HOW
TO
: >> THROW YOUR 17 YEAR OLD DISRESPECFUL SON OUT OF YOUR HOUSE"
: >> thats all i wanted them to read....
: >> the rest was just.. a blog with people supporting others..
: >> I got some good advice from it.. and then the plan was being played out
in
: >> real time.. they clicked the link.. and now.. he thinks there is a list
of
: >> ways to throw him out.. and he gets pissed.. and drops the f bomb
several
: >> more times.. then threatens mom.. she is numb and dumb to it.. so she
just
: >> leaves.. taking it.. getting walked on.. all the time I am boiling at
this
: >> point.
: >> So she leaves.. then.. he starts the same shit with his sister..
threatens
: >> her.. THATS IT.. I get up..
: >> go out and make him leave.. make him get out.. as I am backing him out
the
: >> front door.. he is throwing F bombs at me.. over and over.. and I said
one
: >> last time.. leave. He says.. FUCJ YOU!!!!
: >> So I close the door.. and lock him out. and call the cops on him.. I
hate
: >> cops.. I hate them bigtime.. and for this reason.
: >> I call them to get him schooled... I had to play it just right.. or he
would
: >> of gone to jail.. then mom would of had to pay. .anyway.. the cops
started
: >> to verbally get strict with him.. and he wasnt getting the hint..
then.. he
: >> was given his last warning.. and he "sat down" like the dog who is told
to
: >> sit.. just like I taught him to sit when the cop says sit... to stay
out of
: >> trouble. He did good.. the cop tells him to go somewhere for a while..
and
: >> come back when he is calm.. then.. here it comes.. cop tells me.. if it
was
: >> me.. i would kick his ass for saying that shit to me.... then leaves..
and
: >> waits for me to take the bait.. he was baiting me.. so he could arrest
me..
: >> that cop didnt come here to get the boy to calm down.. like he did.. he
: >> poked at him.. hoping that he went over the line.. THEN TRIED THE SAME
SHIT
: >> ON ME! He was going to arrest someone last night.. but his mission
failed.
: >> muahahahhaha
: >> later.. I had to call again.. same deal .. cop tried.. failed..
: >> in the end.. the kid will say the f bomb a million times.. but today..
he
: >> has five months and two weeks before he gets kicked out without penalty
of
: >> law. He needs to learn the hard way.. but at this age.. as parents..
or
: >> gaurdians.. its a fine line between disapline.. and abuse.. so just
edjucate
: >> yourself..
: >
: >Yer a better man than me charlie brown, cuz I'd a slapped him in the
: >mouth after the first FU to his mother.
: >
: >Don't tolerate disrespect of that nature from young'uns. Foot-stompin
: >hissy fits is one thing, but foul-mouthin yer momma will get yer 17 yr
: >old ass smacked...PDQ.
:
: Well a lack of good old fashion bottom smackin is probably a large
: part of what contributed to this fuckups current state.
Wrong Mr.Lacko knowledge.
: If his idiot
: parents (or the ones trying to pose as his parents) stepped it the
: fuck up and gave him a good hard swat on the ass when he was six years
: old and throwin any number of tantrums he probably wouldn't have wound
: up like that. Personally, if it was my kid and at that age he started
: that shit with me...no he's not getting kicked out of the house...boy
: I'd have him suckin on a bar of soap, his ass blistered red and tears
: streamin down his cheeks. After that...all his possessions...gone.
: Take every single thing he "owns" and go put it in storage. If he can
: wizen the fuck up and show some respect he can get his stuff back.
: Yer only gonna have to do that just once for the kid to get it through
: his head that he's not the fuck in charge and he had better damn well
: do as he's told, cause his entire life under YOUR roof is a PRIVILEGE
: and one that damn well better not be forsaken.
Hey blubber boi.. all of the above happened.. this kid wasnt born yesterday
ffs.. I personally put the soap in his mouth when he was 7 and said the word
'fuck'.. it was a horrible thing.. I told him.. you cant say that word...
open up.. and he did.. I said.. now.. put that bar of soap in your mouth..
and he did.. only.. he took a bite out of it like a ice cream bar. LOL
He has a mental problem.. not joking.. he has a diagnosed problem.. which
leads to his behavior.. and you have to train
yourself to treat the problem a certain way.
You will never understand until you walk the walk.. other then that..
you have your opinions.. you're on the right track.. but.. at the same
time.. you are completely wrong.. mostly because you are uninformed..I
apologize for your ignorance.