On 26.12.2007 18:00 , Cindy wrote:
> Yes, indeed there are. Writing a lot of interestng and sometimes amazing
> things is not bad at all. I had not decided not to write to you! My
> reaction - that I said Oh my God, was because it was a lot of horrible
> things that girl had done to you.
>
You´re so nice! ;) Well, you know... we all got a back-pack to carry
from the past and much of it is also due to our own stupidity
(sometimes). At least I learned a lesson from it and will hopefully not
repeat the same stupidity twice. I am so much more careful nowadays
regarding people who I let close in to my life.. so.. maybe that was a
very good lesson to learn for me, after all.
> And now Shirley made you tell about it, which I think was quite good.
> Knowing what has been very bad to sombody, makes you know that person a
> little better and understanding a little more. Only a good thing.
>
Well.. It´s not my favorite topic for sure, but.. well, it could have
been worse and it was anyhow some 9 - 10 years now since I got out of
it. The only "problem" or what I should say that still remain is that I
sure have a very hard time trusting people. Well.. enough for to have a
relation I mean. It works fine to have friends and talk about everything
and so on... but as soon as it starts to move beyond that stage, then I
have to explain the whole situation.. and it could be a bit difficult
for others to really understand.
It is so very important to really get to know one and other before doing
anything else... and to get to know someone... well.. that sure could
take some time.
> I have not being against that you write a lot. I have read it all with much
> interest, only I am sorry, that there are things I never got time to answear
> og comment. :-)
>
You don´t have to answer exactly everything you know... just enough
words so there will be a sort of understandable dialogue...
> As for instance: You told that you have touring round as a rock-player. It
> made me wonder if that has made you feel that need for harmony, as you wrote
> you have. Has it beeing so that you felt a horrible lot of noice around you,
> so that you couldn't stand it anylonger.
>
No, I don´t believe it has to do with that actually, I just feel a
better harmony in my life if I don´t surround myself with a lot of noise
and other stuff that screem for my attention. I´m a Cat person type of
guy.. ha ha. Well, I had a Doberman but hey! That was yet another really
bad choice :) I will probably never grow up! ha ha.
> And this made me think about Ronnie - will it be the same for him one day.
> There are a few other things I should have ask'd about.
>
You know... I believe it will be the same for most people someday. Some
has a slight bigger need then others tho, but we all will grow to love
harmony, just you wait and see. It will happen to you, it will happen to
Ronnie..
>> I did a little snooping in our public archives regarding those names of
>> yours, Cortzen , Tilly and Kruse. This family named Cortzen seem to have
>> disappeared completely from Sweden and I have made a double check on it
>> for to make absolutely sure... Zero people with the name of Cortzen.
>>
>
> thank you for looking in your archives for that. Cortzen has always been a
> little special to me. You know, In Sweden you have names like Larson,
> Jönsson, Månsson - the ending -son is normal in sweden whereas it in
> Denmark is normal to let the ending beeing -sen. So why -zen in Cortzen?
>
Well, the double S like in Larsson, Svensson, Jonsson etc is typically
Swedish. The ending " sen " as in Cortzen is more Danish or Norwegian...
but the Z indicates either Portugal or Spain. Swedes has almost never a
single S in the name because the name actually say " the son of" . The
son of Carl becomes, "Carl´s son" (Carls Son).. by other words, the
entire sentence contains two S, not one.
> Now I tried to look it up like Cortzen, it gave only 66 persons in Dk. And I
> tried therefore Cortsen, which gave 252. Don't know if it proofs anything.
>
Well... I find it unlikely that anyone from the original Cortzen would
have made a change... it simply sounds like two different families. One
original and another one adopting the name.. but who had to swap the z
against the s.. At least in Sweden we can´t just take the name from
another family and make it ours.. we must make an original. I would
guess it is the same also in Denmark.
> You are right, that Tilly is a very unusually name. I really wonder where
> that comes from. Doen't sound Danish nor Swedish.
>
>> I had some better luck with Tilly tho. There are at present 483 people
>> living here with the name of Tilly. It´s a rather unusual name so I´m
>> pretty sure they all belongs to the same original family.
>>
>
>
Tilly... well... that could be your first name as well as you family
name and the only place that I know of using the name is England. I
would guess that this Tilly originally came from UK.. somewhere.
> I agree - that must be one special family.
>
>
>> Kruse... ooh! they seem to like intimacy even better. A whopping 948
>> people bears the name of Kruse today in Sweden. When thinking about all
>> them Kruse now living in Denmark I do believe that the original Kruse
>> familu simply must have been Danish and that the Swedish Kruse simply
>> must have been immigrants.
>>
>> When looking at the original location of the Swedish Kruse family (Eksö
>> in Småland) that is down south and not too strange when thinking about
>> that the entire south of Sweden once belonged to Denmark..
>>
>
>
> Oh yes, you quickly come to the logically conclusions. I agree in that one
> too.
>
>
Sounds good to me!
>> It´s very difficult to reach further back in history then to the 16th
>> century something because all the archives got destroyed in the big fire
>> up in Stockholm where most records were kept. The Church had a few books
>> but there aren´t that many to find either.. Your Danish records are
>> however complete from what I´ve heard... so maybe you´ll have some
>> better luck there.
>>
>
> I have to see, what can come up.
>
>
>> Well.. I´ll try not writing so much then :)
>>
>
>
> Eeh - no, I don't like to say: Yes, do that. I myself have just now used a
> lot of words on small details, so o ...............
>
>
Well...I know that I could be a bit talkative sometimes.. but you don´t
have to read everything or even answer everything.. so I hope you don´t
mind.. It´s just my hopeless personality..
> And there are more, that I want to say, so maybe I will drop a few words
> later, right at the moment I'll make some thea and get over to look at the
> tv-news. It was all stolen from me yesterday. Just as i had turn'd in to the
> DR 1, it all disappeared, and the next moment a neighbour called and asked I
> my tv was black too.
>
Then you maybe missed the Christmas show from Aalborg yesterday?
They sent it here too and I got to see the most of it tho. Very good and
the musicians... must have been the Danish Radio Symphonic Orchestra...
sigh... totally awsome! what great musicians.. I got goosebumps all over
:)... well... almost!
> Yes, and it lasted more than an hour. So I would'nt miss it today.
>
> But right now have a nice evening.
>
>
> Cindy
>
>
The same to you, and I wish you a wonderful night and magical dreams.
Natti natti, Pete
