... said "how can one", you know, right there in the bit before my post. So I gave a method for how one can. I never said it was the only method. Pay attention. You do not unconditonally love, Yes, I do. I just don't unconditionally love YOU, which is why you're acting like such a hurt and angry little boy toward me. All remarks from you concerning unconditional love are suspect, ...

... should anyone listen to someone who according to *YOU* failed at that unconditional love ? If you're not into it, let it go. No. This is exactly where you go wrong. You do not unconditonally love, you reject what seems wrong to you. Thanks for proving my point. Don't try to talk about something you know nothing about based on what you imagine it might be like. Indeed ...