<markolson4@anonymous.com> wrote in message news:u25tc3pfcln99lkmnol8tm53pu3b8bb1hj@4ax.com... I have some friends who are middle aged. I have known them most of my life. They have been married a long time and were one of few couples that I have known who have been married for a long time and were always very happy in their marriage. They have always had a rough life of poverty