...ve chosen to interpret what's been said. It looks like a lot the MLTRs you all mentioned having or have now are (not ALL) with married women. So my question is, why do the women you're in MLTRs with actually marry in the first place? What's so wrong with just being SINGLE and having MLTRs? The security? Family pressure? Tax breaks? You'd have to ask them....

...yahoo.com wrote: So my question is, why do the women you're in MLTRs with actually marry in the first place? What's so wrong with just being SINGLE and having MLTRs? imho nothing at all. I think that if one day I'll be married I wanna that both of us can have MLTR. Indeed the best would be swingers' lifestyle To be married or single doesn't change...

...seen. I find that interesting. :) It looks like a lot the MLTRs you all mentioned having or have now are (not ALL) with married women. So my question is, why do the women you're in MLTRs with actually marry in the first place? What's so wrong with just being SINGLE and having MLTRs? The security? Family pressure? Tax breaks? And chuckles to whoever asked me ...

...have seen. I find that interesting. :) It looks like a lot the MLTRs you all mentioned having or have now are (not ALL) with married women. So my question is, why do the women you're in MLTRs with actually marry in the first place? What's so wrong with just being SINGLE and having MLTRs? The security? Family pressure? Tax breaks? I've never had sex even once with ...

... seen. I find that interesting. :) It looks like a lot the MLTRs you all mentioned having or have now are (not ALL) with married women. So my question is, why do the women you're in MLTRs with actually marry in the first place? What's so wrong with just being SINGLE and having MLTRs? The security? Family pressure? Tax breaks? And chuckles to whoever asked me if I ...

... because of what I have seen. I find that interesting. :) It looks like a lot the MLTRs you all mentioned having or have now are (not ALL) with married women. So my question is, why do the women you're in MLTRs with actually marry in the first place? What's so wrong with just being SINGLE and having MLTRs? The security? Family pressure? Tax breaks?

...-up ex-dancer whore. LOL! You're so predictably wrong. Guys who want "MLTR" won't be getting it from her. If I'm in a relationship with a man, I don't cheat. MLTR is not cheating (to them), since the primary is (eventually) told of ...these guys think you don't know yourself and would actually agree to an MLTR if the guy ran "tight game" on you and "managed your ...

... woman requires in an LTR (as opposed to a fuckbuddy), the likelihood is that the "secondary" chicks in an MLTR will drift away quickly into other relationships. One of my MLTRs finally drifted away into another relationship after two years. You'd be surprised how long a secondary chick can remain in...

Ray Gordon, creator of the "pivot" wrote: In fact, show me *any* woman other than a swinger (a small subset of the population) who publicly endorses an MLTR setup. Gee. I wonder whether it will take more than 30 seconds to find any... By "Daniela" www.polyamory.com Polyamory is NOT swinging There is a major distinction to be made between what is called "Swinging" and Polyamory. In...

Ray Gordon, wrote: She believes in monogamy, apparently. Yes, I do. For me. Guys who want "MLTR" won't be getting it from her. If I'm in a relationship with a man, I don't cheat. I have never cheated in a relationship. I believe in trust and honesty and I expect the same.